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Friday, November 18, 2011

Apologize Even When You Know You're Right


Apologizing does not always mean that you're wrong and the other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego. 

Sometimes when we quarrel with someone we share a relationship with we must learn to let go, and apologize for what they found that we may have done that offended them. Even when we feel adamant about being right, and even when we feel that we shouldn't be the one to apologize, sometimes we must think if the relationship is worth losing, or if our pride can take one hit just one single time, in order to save something so precious. 
When you are in the right relationship with the right person doing this will be difficult but plausible. You have to place value on what this argument is worth and realize that every moment that passes is a moment that a piece of your relationship is slowly being eaten away. Never compromise who you are as a person, but for the sake of love, and for the sake of saving a relationship sometimes we have to just be the bigger person and apologize.

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