It is a hard concept to conceive for a lot of us, especially those of us who have trouble dealing with being rejected and facing reality, but the truth is, when someone really cares they will find ways to show that they care. Some of us question the devotion of a loved one in our lives daily, because they don't do the things that they know they need to do in order to stay in our lives, yet expect to be able to enter in and out of our lives when it is convenient for them. I am here today to tell you to take a stand to those people who treat you in this manner.
The time starts now for them to live by an ultimatum saying that if they want to be in your life they have to do the things necessary in order to stay in your life. Those who really love you, and who are really good for you will accept this and will make a concerted effort in order to remain in your life, while those who don't will not make the efforts they need to in order to remain as a fixture in your life. If you don't stand up for yourself now, then they will continue to run over you and take advantage of the love that you grant them, while if you force someone to do the things that they know they are supposed to do, you will be able to easily weed out the people who are no good for you, and keep the people around who will be positive influences in life!
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