Getting Over A Break Up

Just when I thought I was over you and just when I thought I could stand on my own. Oh, baby those memories come crashing through, and I just cant go on without you. 
Sometimes in our lives we are confronted with a huge problem, after giving a considerable length of time after breaking up, just when we think we are over someone we find ourselves feeling as though we can't make it without our ex lover. We are faced with the huge decision of trying to renew a relationship with someone who may not necessarily be willing to do the same, or not trying at all and basically just cutting our losses. When you make this decision try to remember the reasons that you decided to break up with this person. 
Were they reasons caused by your ill will or did the other person in the relationship not really hold up their end of the deal. Only you know what is right for you but note that it is important to realize that if someone mistreats you and wasn't willing to change before you broke up with them, chances are they won't be willing to change now. If on the other hand you know you were in the wrong and you feel like you can change and be a better lover, than by all means go for it! Just remember not to get content if you renew your relationship, and try to remember how you felt when you didn't have your significant other, so that your newly renewed relationship wont be reminiscent of the past.